Oh, baby its hard for me to know you are sick stay strong, eat well and rest. I reemmber all too well, its all coming back to me lol. You will make it through, your Dad and me did, and we didnt think we’d be able to do it well we didnt even think that, we just went day by day and had each other. We,too, lived a ways from family and felt kinda alone. (In Hibbing). You both will be fine, give each other a hug really often.